What a man should wear to a wedding depends on the formality of the event, the venue and sometimes even the season. Here’s a guide to help you to choose appropriate attire:
- Formal or Black-Tie Wedding
Suit: A black tuxedo is the standard. If the invitation specifies “black-tie optional”, a dark suit with a white dress shirt can also work.
Shirt: A white dress shirt, preferably with a wing collar or a classic spread collar.
Tie: A black bow tie is traditional. If wearing a dark suit, a black and dark silk tie is acceptable.
Shoes: Black patent leather dress shoes or well polished black leather dress shoes.
Accessories: Consider a white pocket square cufflinks and possibly a vest or cummerbund if going with a tuxedo.
2. Semi Formal or Cocktail Wedding
Suit: A dark suit in navy or charcoal color or black is suitable. You can also opt for a lighter gray or even a patterned suit if the event is less formal.
Shirt: A white or light colored dress shirt.
Tie: A silk tie in a color or pattern that complements your suit. You can be a bit more adventurous with patterns here.
Shoes: Black or brown leather dress shoes, depending on the color of your suits.
Accessories: A pocket square with matching belt and shoes are good additions. Cufflinks are optional.
3. Casual or Beach Wedding
Suit: A lighter colored suit like beige or light gray, or even a blazer with a dress pants if the event is more relaxed. For a beach wedding, you might wear linen or more casual blazer.
Shirt: A dress shirt in a light color or even a dressy polo or short sleeve shirt if specified.
Tie: Optional. If you want to wear one, go for a lighter, more casual style.
Shoes: Loafers or dress shoes, and for a beach wedding, clean and stylish loafers or dress sandals.
Accessories: Keep it minimal. A casual belt and a lightweight watch or bracelet can work well.
4. Themed or Cultural Wedding
Suit: Follow the theme or cultural dress code specified in the invitation. For instance, traditional attire for a cultural wedding or a themed suit if it’s a themed event.
Shirt/Tie: Match the cultural or thematic dress code. For example, a traditional outfit for a wedding or something more relaxed for a themed wedding.
Tips
Ensure all clothing is well tailored to your body for a sharp, polished look. Make sure your hair and facial hair are well groomed. Consider the season and weather. For summer weddings, lighter fabrics and colors are appropriate while in winter weddings may call for heavier fabrics and darker colors.